About Trevor & Bridgett
Marriage and Family Are Worth Fighting For.
We're Trevor and Bridgett Dunbar—husband and wife, parents, co-hosts of the HE/She Podcast, and founders of The 13th Tribe®.
Marriage and family are under spiritual attack. After everything we've experienced in our own lives, we're more convinced than ever that healthy relationships and strong families are worth fighting for.
That's why we've made it our mission to help people discover who they are, navigate difficult relationships, and create the life and love they were created for.
Our story
We Learned Things the Hard Way.
Between us, we've experienced marriage, divorce, remarriage, parenting, the loss of a child, financial collapse, betrayal, broken relationships, family discord, court battles, and rebuilding our lives.
Trevor retired as a lieutenant after years in the fire service. An entrepreneur and former church leader, he's built businesses, raised a family, faced bankruptcy and homelessness, and experienced the end of a 25-year marriage. His search for truth and a deeper relationship with God also challenged what he'd been taught about faith, identity, and success.
Bridgett ran her own practice for more than a decade as a licensed marriage and family therapist. A former pastor and spiritual teacher, she's experienced the loss of a son at birth, the breakdown of her first marriage, and the difficult work of rebuilding after profound loss.
Our journeys brought us together. Today, we're happily married and continuing to learn what it takes to build a powerful relationship through life, love, faith, and family.
We know how difficult decisions can become when everything you care about is at stake—and when cultural, family, and religious conditioning create unnecessary obstacles to the life and love you were created for. We've discovered how much can change when you recognize unhealthy patterns and find the clarity, confidence, and courage to move forward.
Our work
Build Powerful Relationships.
We believe the quality of our relationships shapes the quality of our lives. But relationships can also become some of our greatest sources of confusion, fear, heartbreak, and self-doubt.
Should I stay or leave? Can this relationship be repaired? How do I navigate divorce, parenting, dating, or remarriage? How long do I keep conforming to maintain the illusion of peace, even as I slowly lose myself?
These are the questions we help individuals work through. We bring personal and professional insight, male and female perspectives, faith, and lessons from more than three decades of experience to help you make wise decisions and move forward toward the life and love you were created for.
We're pro-love. Pro-marriage. Pro-family. And unapologetically against sacrificing your life to save a toxic relationship.
Our conversations · HE/She Podcast
Identity. Relationships. The Kingdom of God.
These three subjects are at the heart of everything we teach—and the foundation of our HE/She Podcast.
Through candid conversations, personal stories, different perspectives, and practical teaching, we explore marriage, family, difficult decisions, spiritual growth, and what it means to live according to God's design.
Our movement · The 13th Tribe®
Build Unshakeable Families.
We founded The 13th Tribe® as a Christ-centered lifestyle brand and movement for Outliers who refuse to conform.
We're bringing people together to overcome destructive patterns and religious conditioning, grow closer to God, and build stronger relationships and families. Inside Base Camp, Outliers can grow spiritually and find meaningful connections with people who share their values.
Because family includes the people who walk through life with you.
Your next chapter
Let's Build Something Better.
Whether you're facing a difficult relationship decision, rebuilding after loss, or looking for a community of people who share your faith and values, we're passionate about helping you move forward.
The life and love you were created for are worth fighting for.
Trevor & Bridgett Dunbar
Co-hosts of the HE/She Podcast and founders of The 13th Tribe®.